Do you sometimes think your boyfriend is losing interest in you? Or your relationship just isn’t what it was shaped up to be? If this is you then you’re in the right place. When you first begin dating, you may have believed you could end up getting married or at least getting engaged but as time goes by; you begin to notice some things aren’t what they used to be.
There are a lot of reasons why couples breakup. Apart from the really obvious reasons like infidelity, sometimes, things just don’t feel right because of reasons so small you might not be able to put your fingers to what exactly, Follow these simple steps to know if he’s worth staying with or not.
Not heading anywhere
Most women enter into relationships not knowing where they lead, this sometimes is good cause frankly, everyone loves a good surprise but there comes a time you have to ask yourself, where exactly is this headed? When you go 5 months of dating and you notice there really isn’t any sign of intent, pack your things and go.
If he constantly stops you from taking a look at his phone, he’s holding something back... something he’d rather have you not see.
He’s a deadbeat
The end goal of any relationship should be marriage, with that at the back of your mind, if he isn’t showing any sign of responsibility (financial) nor has no goals, “miss me with that bullshit”
Everyone says NO
This is a little difficult for people. When everyone says you should quit, trust me, it’s better if you do. You only have 1 set of eyes and one body...who knows what people have seen him do, and where?
If sex is the only thing right in the relationship
There is no problem if the reason you’re in the relationship is to meet your physical needs but if this isn’t that sort of relationship, it’s a bad sign if all you do is fuck. “Some individuals prioritize needs like sex and physical attractiveness. And while those relationships can last for years, they typically don’t last for many years,” psychologist Seth Meyers, Ph.D., author of Dr. Seth’s Love Prescription
His Negative personality traits are becoming harder to ignore
Everyone has bad traits. Most people are aware of this but still choose to enter into relationships because for some reason, the Love you feel makes you overlook these traits. When these traits begin to irritate you in the slightest, there could be a problem but when it gets worse, you need to get out because that could mean the love you feel is wearing out or that he has started taking you for granted.
Still attached to your Ex
If one of you is still attached to any of your previous partners, it is time to leave because that means you’re not 100 percent emotionally committed to the relationship.
You don’t feel like a priority
When you have to fight for attention then the relationship has long lost its spark and you need to leave or at least rekindle the fire.
You’ve been hurt
If you’ve been hurt in any way, physically, mentally or emotionally, GET THE HELL OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP.
You only see at appointed times
He meets you only at certain times of the week as per his convenience. He can’t meet you on weekends neither can he talk to you in the evenings because he’s hanging out with his friends, and doesn’t want to be disturbed. But he expects you to be free to meet him or speak with him every time he calls or wants to meet you.
If your relationship status prompted you to read this then you probably need to look for a new boyfriend.